Why Love is a Waste of Your Time

1. First, the expression most commonly used with love is “falling in love.” There is no better word to describe it. It is indeed “falling” in love, and that’s what sucks about it. You are tricked into it like an addictive gambling game, and then you are tripped, and you fall, and you keep falling in a seemingly endless spiral. And, like everything that falls, you eventually hit a bottom, and it will be hard and painful. Falling in love only gives you an incurable ache when you reach the end.
2. Second, love is blind. You will walk into love without seeing it, and you will follow love without noticing it. It will dictate your life, and you will not know it until the blindfold is gone, and you love no more. Only then will you realize what kind of sheep you had been while under the spell of love.
3. Third, love hurts. When you fall in love, there are many times when your feelings are not returned, resulting in a painful void in your heart. The pain will seem unbearable, and was not worth the heady feeling you got before your love was not returned. After realizing the truth behind the disadvantages of love, and after experiencing the heartbreak for yourself, will you only realize how meaningless and futile your love was. Your love will only cut you open in the end.
4. “All is fair in love and war.” This commonly used saying is very true, and will ony result in your downfall. Love often strikes many people at once, and for the same thing or person. Competition is what war is about, and love is just the same. You will compete with others to show your affection, and prove your love is most worthy. But, so will everyone else. When competition reaches your friends and family, and you focus only on the art of competition for love, you begin to lose the things you held dear before love struck you. Chances are, you will lose the competition to someone else, and you will be left with nothing, having sacrificed everything to try and win.
5. The most important reason that love sucks, and is not worth your time: your love is no more important than someone else’s. Unless you are some sort of Casanova or Eros, the Greek god of Love and Passion, your love is only important as long as someone believes it is. To keep someone in need of your love, it takes a lifetime of adoration and spontaneity, or else they will look to someone else for the same love and adoration. In the end, love can only hurt you.

Tips Berguna Untuk Menghilangkan Kesepian

Assalamuaikum dan salam sejahtera.
Hari ini terdetik dihati aku untuk berkongsi tip untuk menghilangkan rasa sunyi yang menyelubungi dalam diri. Baiklah di bawah ini penerangannya, aku harap tip ini dapat membantu anda semua, termasuk saya. InsyaAllah
Bila bersendirian, hati sering dilanda sunyi dan sayu, bahkan tidak keruan jadinya. Sepi barangkali menghantui diri apabila terkenangkan seseorang yang pernah menghuni di hati.
Khusus untuk kekasih yang baru ditinggalkan atau yang masih membujang, kesepian itu sering mengundang perasaan bukan-bukan. Puas melakukan sesuatu diharap mampu melupakan hal menyakitkan, pedih yang masih bersisa di ulu hati dan 1001 gelodak di jiwa ada kalanya membuatkan diri hilang fokus dalam pelbagai perkara.

Jika anda masih sukar menepis rasa sepi, cuba anda kaji untuk melakukan perkara berikut:

# Maha Pencipta

kembalilah kepada Pencipta dan mohonlah petunjuk daripada-Nya supaya perkara lalu itu dapat mematangkan diri. Kita juga lebih berhati-hati dalam menjalani hidup ini dengan lebih tabah dan kuat

ingatlah setiap kejadian yang Allah s.w.t cipta mesti bersebab dan ia dijadikan sebagai kayu pengukur keimanan kita terhadap-Nya

# Perbaiki Diri

Jangan sesekali anda berubah kerana ingin memenuhi tuntutan bekas kekasih, tetapi apa yang wajar dilakukan adalah untuk memperbaiki diri daripada pelbagai aspek misalnya kerjaya dan kewangan serta bina keyakinan diri yang mantap demi masa depan lebih stabil.

Ketahuilah apabila anda sudah takluki semua perkara yang dinyatakan dengan keadaan yang baik, di situ juga anda mungkin akan mudah dikelilingi ramai atau lelaki yang suka mengambil kesempatan ke atas diri anda. Awas!!

# Jumpa Kawan

Seperti kebanyakan lelaki atau wanita, apabila bercinta mereka akan meninggalkan kawan rapat. Bukan lupa, tetapi tidak cukup masa sebenarnya. Sekarang waktu paling sesuai untuk anda mengambil peluang ini menggamit kembali bebas ketika bersama mereka.

Sudah pasti anda tidak akan dikecewakan malah anda juga akan mendapat layanan mesra daripada mereka kerana mereka sudah lama tidak bersua muka dengan anda. Tidak percaya? Cubalah!

# Bersenam

Ketika bercinta, tengok wayang, membeli-belah, jalan-jalan, minum dan makan malam itu antara sebahagian besar yang memenuhi diari kehidupan lalu. Namun, ketahuilah perkara yang lepas mungkin tidak akan sama dengan perkara yang sedang anda alami ketika ini.

Apa kata anda lakukan senaman? Ketahuilah ini masanya anda membuang toksik dan lemak yang sudah lama terkumpul di dalam badan.
Aktiviti riadah juga memungkinkan anda berpeluang bertemu dengan wanita atau lelaki yang lebih baik.

# Kembali Nakal

Zaman kanak-kanak adalah saat yang paling indah dan menyeronokkan. Bagi orang dewasa yang sudah melupakan zaman kanak-kanak, kebiasaannya mereka tidak ceria dan tidak mempunyai nilai jenaka.

Sesetengah wanita pula tidak suka lelaki yang nakal kerana rasa dirinya tercabar. Sebab itu ramai lelaki biasanya cuba mengawal perasan mereka dan bersifat kaku seketika bersama teman wanita.

Apabila kembali solo, peluang untuk anda melakukan aktiviti sewaktu bujang atau ‘single’ boleh dilakukan. Bagi wanita, apabila keadan emosi sudah kembali stabil kembali, kebanyakan mereka suka membeli-belah.

# Terokai dunia baru

Elak daripada melakukan aktiviti yang tidak membuka minda. Sebaliknya, terokai dunia baru yang lebih mendamaikan dan bermakna.

# Sukarela

Untuk mengurangkan rasa bosan, kunjungi rumah anak yatim, orang tua atau pusat pemulihan untuk melakukan kerja sukarelawan.

# Pandang ke hadapan

Buang memori bekas pasangan atau kekasih anda jauh daripada fikiran. Berikan perhatian pada apa yang akan berlaku kemudian misalnya bersama bakal kekasih. Capai angan-angan dengan usaha gigih bersama keyakinan yang tinggi.

Good Luck!!

Dear M....

For you, the one I call 'M' ...

I tried to find you.
I tried to contact you.
I tried to visit you.

At the same time, I always try to forget you.
I always try to leave you.
I always try to keep my distance from you.

The further I go, the closer you come.
The further you go, the closer I come.

I will not be able to forget our memory.
I will not be able to eliminate our experience.
I will not be able to eradicate the story our life.

But now you are gone. Now you disappeared. Your disappearance put a full stop to me from turning up. Your disappearance wipes out my desire, my will and my wants.

Saya pasrah. Saya reda.

Thank you for everything you have shared with me.
Thank you for everything you have sacrificed for me.
Thank you for everything you have taught me.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Preparation For My Twin's Wedding

Huargh.... Sleepy.. Sleepy.. But yet, still need to help my sister with some of her preparation for wedding this coming June.

For my wedding? Hehehe.. I don't think so. Just wait and see laa when is the right time to discuss about my own wedding.

I want to share some of the photos I took while completing my task in making the goodies for the guest for the wedding.

still no ribbon.. and flower..

stuff needed.. ribbon, flower, scissors, glue...

still have a few of this huge plastics

ribbon...

Its done!

still have time Facebooking.. :)

Saturday @ Work

It's raining tonight. I am quite exhausted after work. But it was an exciting day at work today. Most of my students came today.

For today, 15th of January 2011, my students are
Marissa Sofea (5 years old),
Damia (3 years old),
Syarah (6 years old),
Jianbei (3 years old),
Shana Alyssa (3 years old),
Ti'ah (3 years old),
Harith (7 years old),
Hakimi (7 years old),
Adam (7 years old) and
Zofri (14 years old).

Those who were absent,
Putri Aaina (5 years old),
Adlina Batrisyia (4 years old) and her twin brother, Adli,
Afif Iskandar (7 years old) and
Varun Raina (12 years old).

Today, some of the things that I taught was Plumo at the Farm for those small students. It was for them to improve their mouse skill and maneuver. They are getting better, compared to previous classes. So, its good laa.. :)

I also taught Scratch. It was fun. I can see that they enjoyed themselves (perasan la pulak, hehehe...). It is a programming for kids, and you can download from the internet. Basic programming lesson where they can create their own simple games and animation features.

It was quite funny to see that two of my 3 year old student, Damia and Shana
were like cannot take turns. They wanted to conquer the mouse and do not want to share. At some point, I was just like let them quarrel.. Hehehe...
Mia was pinching Shana, Shana was pinching Mia.. but then they apologize right after one pinching another. I remembered Shana said to Mia,
"I'm sorry, please don't cry. You want to cry? I am sorry".

Then Mia was like sulking for a 5 seconds and they were back to like close friends.

this is Shanaand this is Damia

Hopefully tomorrow is going to be more exciting day at work. But really cant wait for Monday. Hehehehe...

It's Late.. And Yet, I Am Still Awake!!!

OMG, look at the time now. Its 0345a.m. Why the hell am I still here, in front of my laptop.
Facebook is off,
Yahoo Messenger is off,
Skype is off.
Suddenly tonight feels like wanna update my blog.
So,
I guess there is one that is still on,
Blogger is on!!
Here I am, still awake, facing the screen.

Tonight, I wanna apologize to this person. The person that I love, I care and I respect. I am so sorry coz tonight we had a small fight, or I can say quarrel that made me like do not wanna talk to you at all. And I did. I did not talk to you even one word tonight. Sorry ya.. You know I love you. I'll help you later with your never ending works. :)

Tomorrow I have to wake up early. Should I go to bed now, or should I just stay awake so that I will not wake up late for tomorrow. Hmm... I think I should off to bed.

Okay folks. I am going to bed.

To everyone, good night...
To the person that I've apologize, I'll join you on bed...
To Mohd Padlisham, I love you and misses you so damn much...

Assalamualaikum w.b.t.

Baik Baik Sayang

I have one new favorite song, Baik-Baik Sayang, a song by an Indonesian Band Wali Band.

I really love to hear the vocalist's voice, such a nice-to-hear type of voice. I will never feel bored, like forever.

Aku tak ingin
Kau menangis bersedih
Sudahi airmata darimu
Yang aku ingin
Arti hadir diriku
Kan menghapus dukamu
Sayang...
Karena bagiku kau kehormatanku
Dengarkan... Dengarkan aku

Hanya satu pintaku
Untukmu dan hidupmu
Baik-baik Sayang
Ada aku untukmu
Hanya satu pintaku
Disiang dan malammu
Baik-baik Sayang
Karna aku untukmu

Semua keinginan akan aku lakukan
Sekuat semampuku Sayang
Karena bagiku kau kehormatanku
Dengarkan... Dengarkan aku

Hanya satu pintaku
Untukmu dan hidupmu
Baik-baik Sayang
Ada aku untukmu
Hanya satu pintaku
Disiang dan malammu
Baik-baik Sayang
Karna aku untukmu

Hope you'll enjoy the song like I did. Enjoy!!

It's Friday!!

It’s Friday, and as usual, waked up late. Damn so lazy to go to work. But she has to. Like my handsome guy always said, “kene laa keje, tak keje nak makan ape”. Yeah, so here I am at Great Eastern Mall, Jalan Ampang.

Today most of my students were absent. Ethan wants to play Putt-Putt Enter the Race. He is such a smart 9 year old boy. Then, three years old cute boy, Jordan. Chan Ngai Thong, Neda Fayaz, Idaini Nurisha. That’s all? Yup, only five altogether. The one that was absent, Kyla Ichelle, Yasmin Ghariani, Zaqirah Alissa, Aniq Shazmeer, Fareed, Emman and Qhadijah.

Even though most of them were absent, I still had fun teaching the rest of the students. Hopefully they had fun like I did.